WHAT WOMEN LOVE IN MEN
(strictly for men) One of my sisters confronted me sometime with an assertion that happy married women are scarce. I don’t have scientific or reliable data to support that but my observations will soak that inference in proofs. The most painful concern I have is that many fervent, flaming females get neutralized spiritually after marriage; […]
WHAT MEN HATE ABOUT WOMEN
(strictly for ladies please) I’ve been privileged by grace to speak with scores of men in heart to heart discussions on marriage: some under strict condition of secrecy, others mild disclosure and a few openly. I’ve had to refrain a grandfather from crying over his wife’s attitude, I’ve met young bitter husbands whose greatest life […]
CLOSE YOUR WINDOW
We arrived late in the night at that “wonderful” city in the East and the driver kept warning those buying stuffs in the traffic to keep the window shut. A woman negligently opened her side of the window in the bus and a man pretending to be hawking snacks grabbed her bag like a whirlwind […]
International Women’s Day
I marked the International Women’s Day for my wife by cancelling all my engagements for the market without telling her. One of my “brothers” intending to get married was on my neck for some marital tips, so I called him over for the surprise. He assumed as usual that we were going for ministration until […]
Strictly For Brothers
It was our ordination service and the grip on my mind was the tall standards set by my predecessors. Outside the chapel some sisters were discussing, but for a lack of an alternative route, I was compelled to pass beside them beaming an official smile. They all responded with “congratulations BSS” in unison, but after […]
Love Note (Can You Hear Me Now?)
Love stories usually open with sweet paragraphs, but how some pages of affection end abruptly with tragic punctuation marks in the middle of marital sentence is a terrible noun which cannot be in love with a positive adjective. I’ve been sober in reflection upon the news of another death of a spouse occasioned by her […]
Raise The Alarm
Burglars are everywhere these days. An attempt to burglarize a house in the neighborhood was foiled recently though. The burglar had scaled the perimeter fence but as he attempted to compromise the frames, the alarm went off to a deafening decibel alerting everyone within range. He fled before the cock of arrest could crow! Thieves […]
We will win
My hands were full and watching Nigeria against Argentina hoisted no flag of fancy for me. It was not a question of who would win, it was by what margin! I stood for few minutes to see the green boys learning from the blue men! The first in the net was hilarious and the second […]
Aso Ebi
Matthew 22:12: And he saith unto him, FRIEND, how camest thou in hither not having a wedding garment? And he was speechless. If you cannot audit your friendship, your spiritual power supply will be epileptic. Many things invite people into our lives for friendship, like neighborhood, kinship, fellowship, workplace, ceremonies, language or even common enemies. […]
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